Monday, June 22, 2015

A Strong Woman

A Strong Woman:
 
After last week, it was a hard week for me,  I struggled with my own strength!  I viewed being strong as bad! People who are strong usually suffer the most. No one ever thinks a strong woman can fall, can break, or can become insecure!
 
It's hard for me to ask for help.  Everytime I do, it's viewed by others as weakness, or I get attacked, or I end up hurting myself even more or hurting, annoying, or frustrating other people with my insecurities, my emotions, and my problems!
 
Which only makes it harder to ask for help in the future!  I mean why would you if you keep having all the above every time? 
 
However,  the benefit of being a strong woman,  is the fact that I know every struggle will only make me that much stronger! It reveals a strength you didn't know you had. It reveals who will really help you,  who will attack you,  and who will laugh at you for falling!
 
Though the lessons can be hard sometimes, they are worth learning!  The struggles are worth enduring! The pain is only temporary and so is the darkness! 
 
The knowledge learned can never be taken from you and neither can your new found strength! 
So ladies: here's to all of your beautiful smiles through the tears, the silent struggles while helping everyone else, and the strength you will never lose! 
 
We are strong! And I have every intention of showing my daughter just how strong I am for her and our family! 
 
To those who helped me last week even if it was offering me some chocolate or just sitting silently by me while I work things out, or listening to me,  thank you! I really appreciate you! 
 
#strongwoman #nevergiveup #believeinyourself
 

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